I did go back and worked for a few hours, nothing too hard.
The funny thing is that I confessed and took guidance from my customers
I went shopping on the way home yesterday and when I was coming out of the supermarket there was a lady loading tons of stuff into her Mercedes car, I asked her if she was running an orphanage and we spoke for 10 mins.She was in fact shopping for online customers and delivering to their homes. Her work had dried up owing to covid and this low paid task helped her through the week. I was gobsmacked in a way I admired her bottle for getting out there and making a go of it.Most of us curse the dark instead of turning on the light.
Later on I met a lady who was speaking Arabic on her phone. When she finished her call I said the only Arabic words that I know,"Shockran Habibi" (Thanks honey bunch )
We spoke about this and that and I asked if she was a nurse or a doctor. She turned out to be an interpreter and she said that she would hate to work in social services or child protection.
The thing about that is you damned if you do and damned if you don't
Then she hit me with this story.
Did you hear about the 16 year old boy who was taken into care because his parents were fighting ?
He really wanted to talk to his mother and they blocked him.
He was upset beyond all reason. Then he saw his chance to escape and went out down to the river Liffey and killed himself.
He was only 16 he needed someone to listen to him and to help him, not to be locked up.
A mediator to be placed into the house for a few sessions might have brought around a more peaceful solution.